Case Summary – Reconsideration of Parenting Orders:

23 March 2025

In the recent case of Stedman & Stedman, the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia faced a complex parenting dispute involving significant changes in living arrangements and schooling decisions for the parties’ children. With the mother seeking to transfer her son to a closer school amidst concerns about her mental health and the father’s request for sole custody, the court navigated critical legal principles under the Family Law Act. This case underscores the delicate balance between parental rights and the child’s best interests, highlighting the importance of expert legal representation in family law matters.

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Key Takeaways

  • The case was heard regarding a dispute over the schooling of the younger child, X, following changes in the mother’s living arrangements.
  • The father sought amendments to final parenting orders, raising concerns about the mother's mental health and her capacity to co-parent.
  • The court ruled in favor of the mother’s request to transfer X to a school closer to her new residence, citing the excessive burden of the long commute.
  • The court deferred the father's request for sole parental responsibility, emphasizing the need for procedural fairness.
  • The case highlights the importance of stability, parental capacity, and the child's well-being in custody determinations.

Stedman & Stedman [2024] FedCFamC2F 1701

Introduction

The case of Stedman & Stedman [2024] FedCFamC2F 1701 was heard before Judge O’Shannessy in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 2) on 14 November 2024. The matter revolved around a dispute regarding the schooling of the parties’ younger child, X, following a significant change in the mother’s living arrangements. The father also sought amendments to the final parenting orders made on 9 August 2023, which triggered legal considerations under section 65DAAA of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth). The case highlights the court’s approach to parental disputes over major long-term decisions for children, the weight given to practical and psychological factors in determining the child’s best interests, and the threshold for revisiting final parenting orders.

Background

The parties, Ms Stedman (the mother) and Mr Stedman (the father), separated in early 2018 after cohabiting since 2012 and marrying in 2014. They have two children, Y (12 years old) and X (9 years old). Under final parenting orders made on 9 August 2023, both parents shared equal parental responsibility, and the children were to live on a week-about basis with each parent. The court’s orders at that time acknowledged that the children’s schooling arrangements might need to be reconsidered if the mother obtained stable housing.

Since the final orders, there had been significant disruptions to the week-about parenting arrangement. Y, the older child, had ceased spending time with the father and was experiencing severe school attendance issues. The mother, now caring for an infant from another relationship, sought to change X’s school due to the long commute from her newly secured residence to the children’s current school. The father opposed this change, arguing for continuity in X’s education and asserting concerns about the mother’s mental health and capacity to co-parent effectively.

Complicating matters further, the father sought to reopen the parenting orders, requesting sole parental responsibility and primary custody of both children. The court had to assess whether his application met the threshold for reconsideration under section 65DAAA of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).

Key Legal Issues and Questions for the Court

The Court was required to consider:

  1. Schooling Decision: Whether X should remain at their current school or transfer to a school closer to the mother’s new residence, considering both practical and psychological impacts on the child and the parents.
  2. Section 65DAAA Consideration: Whether there had been a significant change in circumstances since the final parenting orders to justify the father’s request for reconsideration of custody arrangements under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).
  3. Best Interests of the Child: Whether a change in school would better serve X’s educational stability, emotional and psychological well-being, and overall welfare.
  4. Parental Capacity and Mental Health Considerations: Whether concerns regarding the mother’s and father’s mental health and ability to meet X’s needs should influence the court’s decision on schooling.

Case Authorities and Cited Precedents 

The Court relied on key legal principles and precedents to assess the child’s best interests, including:

  • Rice & Asplund (1978) 6FamLR 570, (1979) FLC 90-725 – Established the principle that final parenting orders should only be reconsidered if there has been a significant change in circumstances.

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  • Re F: Litigants in Person Guidelines (2001) FLC 93 072 – Provided procedural guidelines for self-represented litigants in family law matters.
  • Licata & Buxton [2019] FCCA 3181 – Affirmed that while parental convenience is relevant in schooling disputes, it is not the paramount consideration.

Link: Full Case

  • Babic & Taccini [2024] FCWA 203 – Addressed procedural fairness in family law proceedings.

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  • Whitehill & Talaska [2024] FedCFamC2F 768 – Considered parental capacity and psychological concerns in custody disputes.

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  • Rasheem & Rasheem [2024] FedCFamC1F 595 – Examined the weight given to a child’s stability and the impact of changes in primary care arrangements

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Court’s Findings

  1. Change of School Approved: The court ruled in favour of the mother’s request to transfer X to B School, closer to her residence. The judge found that the long commute imposed an excessive burden on the mother, impacting her ability to care for all her children. While acknowledging potential stress from changing schools, the court determined that improving stability in the mother’s household was in X’s best interests.
  2. Father’s Section 65DAAA Application Adjourned: The court deferred the father’s request for sole parental responsibility, citing the need for procedural fairness. The mother was granted time to respond to his claims, with a hearing scheduled for 7 February 2025.
  3. Mental Health and Parenting Capacity Considerations: The court considered conflicting psychological reports regarding the mother’s mental health. While one report raised concerns about her parenting capacity, a later assessment found no significant issues. The court noted these matters required further examination but did not justify preventing the school change.

Legal Implications and Precedent Summary

This case highlights significant legal principles in the reconsideration of final parenting orders. Section 65DAAA imposes a high threshold, requiring a substantial change in circumstances before modifications can be made. While continuity in education is preferred, logistical and psychological challenges may warrant reconsideration. The court carefully evaluates expert psychological assessments while ensuring procedural fairness, particularly when conflicting reports exist. Stability, parental capacity, and the child’s well-being remain the central focus in such determinations. This case reaffirms that parenting orders should only be reconsidered when the proposed changes demonstrably serve the child’s best interests.

Keywords

  • Family law
  • Parenting orders
  • Schooling disputes
  • Section 65DAAA
  • Best interests of the child
  • Mental health assessments in custody cases
  • Procedural fairness
  • Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia

Conclusion and Call to Action

The case of Stedman v Stedman highlights the complexities involved in parenting disputes, particularly when logistical and psychological factors intersect with legal principles. It underscores the importance of strategic legal representation in ensuring that parental rights and the child’s best interests are effectively advocated in court.

If you are involved in a parenting dispute or need assistance with family law matters, Pentana Stanton Lawyers can provide expert legal advice and representation to protect your rights and secure the best possible outcome for your family.

Contact us today to discuss your case with our experienced family law team.

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