Case Summary – Grandparents in Family Law Cases

24 March 2025

“While acknowledging the applicant’s prior involvement in the children’s lives, the Court prioritised the children’s expressed wishes and emotional wellbeing. In doing so, it held that maintaining psychological safety outweighed any potential benefit of resuming direct contact with the grandmother.” – Horton & Reid [2024] FedCFamC2F 1705

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Key Takeaways

  • Children Opposed to Contact: The Court gave significant weight to the children’s clear and consistent opposition to resuming contact with their maternal grandmother, citing past distress caused by her actions.
  • Psychological Risk Recognised: Expert evidence confirmed that forced contact with the grandmother could cause emotional harm, leading the Court to deny direct time.
  • No Evidence of Family Violence: The grandmother’s persistent reports to authorities were found to be unsupported and contributed to the breakdown of her relationship with the children and the mother.
  • Limited Indirect Contact Permitted: The Court allowed the grandmother to send letters, cards, and gift vouchers at the mother’s discretion but prohibited any discussion of court matters or allegations.
  • Best Interests Remain Paramount: The Court reaffirmed that a grandparent’s desire for contact cannot override the psychological welfare and expressed views of the children under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth).

Horton & Reid [2024] FedCFamC2F 1705

Introduction

The case Horton v Reid [2024] FedCFamC2F 1705 was heard in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Division 2) and involved a parenting dispute between the applicant, the maternal grandmother (Ms Horton), and the first respondent, the children’s mother (Ms Reid). The central issue in contention was whether the grandmother should be granted time with her three grandchildren, all of whom resided with their mother. The father of the children, Mr C, was also named as a respondent in the matter but did not participate in the proceedings. The court was required to assess the children’s best interests and the potential psychological and emotional impacts of maintaining or resuming contact with their grandmother.

Background

The maternal grandmother was actively involved in her grandchildren’s early years, but her relationship with the mother soured after the mother began a relationship with Mr F in 2018. The grandmother disapproved of Mr F, alleging that he was controlling and abusive toward both the mother and the children.

Tensions escalated as the grandmother made multiple reports to the Department for Child Protection and the police, asserting that Mr F posed a risk to the children. The mother rejected these claims and saw the grandmother’s actions as an overreach that was causing turmoil in the family.

By 2020, all contact between the grandmother and the children ceased. The grandmother argued that this was due to parental alienation orchestrated by the mother, whereas the mother insisted that the children had chosen to distance themselves.

In 2022, the grandmother sought court intervention, requesting time with the children. She contended that she had played an essential role in their upbringing and that her absence was detrimental to their well-being. The mother strongly opposed the application, asserting that forcing the children into contact would cause undue psychological stress. The Independent Children’s Lawyer (ICL) was appointed to advocate for the children’s interests and supported the mother’s position.

Key Legal Issues and Questions for the Court

  1. Grandparent’s Right to Contact Under Section 64C of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) – Whether the maternal grandmother had standing to seek parenting orders given her non-parental status.
  2. Children’s Best Interests Under Section 60CC – Whether an order for the children to spend time with the grandmother would be consistent with the statutory obligation to prioritise the children’s best interests.
  3. Psychological and Emotional Risk – Whether exposing the children to the grandmother would cause them emotional or psychological harm given their previously stated distress.
  4. Weight of Children’s Views – Whether the children’s opposition to contact should be determinative, considering their maturity and understanding of the circumstances.
  5. Permissibility of Indirect Contact – Whether allowing the grandmother to send letters, cards, and gifts was a reasonable compromise in maintaining a limited connection without forcing direct interaction.

Case Authorities and Cited Precedents

The court considered multiple legal precedents in assessing risk and best interests under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), including:

  1. Cao & Cao [2018] FamCAFC 252; (2018) FLC 93-880 – Discussed the importance of risk assessment in parenting matters.

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  • Fitzwater v Fitzwater [2019] FamCAFC 251 – Addressed the significance of children’s expressed views.

Link: Full Case

  • Keane & Keane [2021] FamCAFC 1 – Reinforced the court’s discretionary power in parenting orders.

Link: Full Case

  • M v M [1988] HCA 68; (1988) 166 CLR 69 – Provided the legal framework for assessing “unacceptable risk” in parenting disputes.

Link: Full Case

  • Illes & Nelisson [2022] FedCFamC1A 97 – Considered psychological harm in family law disputes.

Link: Full Case

  • Kozma & Bielen [2022] FedCFamC2F 1250 – Addressed the potential impact of allegations of family violence in parenting matters.

Link: Full Case

  • Fox & Percy [2003] HCA 22; (2003) 214 CLR 118 – Provided guidance on the assessment of evidence in family law disputes.

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  • Housing Commission of New South Wales v Pastoral Company Pty Ltd [1983] 3 NSWLR 378 – Examined procedural fairness in family law litigation.
  • Momcilovic v The Queen (2011) 245 CLR 1 – Discussed statutory interpretation relevant to family law applications.

Link: Full Case

  1. Fitzwater v Fitzwater [2019] FamCAFC 251 – Reaffirmed the role of the court in determining children’s best interests in complex parenting disputes.

Link: Full Case

Court’s Findings

  1. Children’s Views: The children, aged 15, 12, and 10, expressed strong opposition to spending time with their grandmother. They recalled the grandmother frequently involving police and child protection authorities in their lives, which they found distressing.
  2. Psychological Harm: The court accepted expert testimony that forcing the children into contact with the grandmother could cause emotional and psychological harm.
  3. Grandmother’s Conduct: The court found that the grandmother had a rigid and fixed view that the children were victims of family violence, despite no supporting evidence from child protection authorities or police investigations.
  4. Unfounded Allegations: The grandmother continued to believe that the children were at risk, despite no evidence substantiating her claims. Her persistent reports to authorities contributed to the breakdown of trust between her and the family.
  5. Contact in Best Interests: The court determined that it was not in the children’s best interests to spend time with the grandmother, given their firm opposition and the potential for distress.
  6. Limited Contact Allowed: The grandmother was permitted to send letters, cards, and gift vouchers to the children, subject to the mother’s discretion. However, she was prohibited from discussing court proceedings or making allegations of family violence in her correspondence.

Legal Implications and Precedent Summary

This case reinforces key principles in Australian family law, particularly the primacy of children’s best interests under Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) ss 60B, 60CA, and 60CC. Courts give significant weight to children’s views, especially when they have consistently expressed them over time. The case also highlights that an unacceptable risk to a child’s psychological or emotional well-being is sufficient to deny contact, even in the absence of physical danger. Additionally, the decision demonstrates that while section 64C of the Family Law Act allows grandparents to apply for parenting orders, there is no automatic entitlement to contact. Finally, it underscores the significant role of Independent Children’s Lawyers (ICLs) in representing children’s interests in contentious family disputes.

Keywords

  • Family law
  • Parenting orders
  • Best interests of the child
  • Grandparents’ rights
  • Unacceptable risk
  • Psychological harm
  • Family Law Act 1975 (Cth)

Conclusion and Call to Action

The decision in Horton v Reid [2024] underscores the importance of respecting children’s wishes and protecting their emotional well-being in family law disputes. While grandparents can play a valuable role in children’s lives, courts will not impose contact if it is against the child’s best interests.

If you are involved in a family law dispute, whether it concerns parenting arrangements, grandparental rights, or child welfare issues, Pentana Stanton Lawyers can provide expert legal assistance. Our experienced family law team can guide you through the complexities of the legal system and advocate for your best interests.

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